
Poll #1770025
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1. At the beginning, Buffy is pondering a potential relationship with Riley. She says: "Part of me believes that real love and passion have to go hand in hand with pain and fighting." Is this true for the Buffster?
| Yes. She needs that in her relationships. |
| No. She'd be just fine without all the pain and such. |
| Hell, she'd be better in a relationship without all the angst. |
| I have another answer |
| Not sure. |
2. I can already predict the results to these next two, but let's do a couple chemistry scales. In this episode, Buffy and Riley have a picnic where the topic wanders on to driving. A hot and heavy moment is shared between them. On the scale below, rate the chemistry between this couple. 1 = None; 10 = SO MUCH CHEMISTRY.
Mean: 3.61 Median: 3 Std. Dev 1.99
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3. Moving on, this episode also has Buffy and Spike bespelled into an engagement. They spend a large chunk of the episode snogging and groping. Rate their chemistry on the scale. 1 = None; 10 = SO MUCH CHEMISTRY.
Mean: 8.35 Median: 9 Std. Dev 2.05
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4. Buffy mentions at the end that she may get Willow to do a forgetting spell on her to block out the memories of the engagement to Spike. Think she ever did it?
| Yeah. Buffy was pretty icked out over it. |
| No. She secretly enjoyed it. |
| No. She never got around to it. |
| No. She didn't trust Willow to do the spell right. |
| I have another answer. |
| Not sure. |
5. At the end, Buffy seems much more amenable to a relationship with Riley, a "decent, reliable" guy. Is she considering this relationship because she wants it or because it seems like the sensible thing to do?
| She genuinely wants to date Riley. She digs him. |
| She feels like it's the sensible thing to do to get away from her "bad boy" thing. |
| Bit of both |
| I have another answer. |
| Not sure. |
6. Speaking of that "bad boy" thing, does Angel qualify as such?
| Yeah. He was totally a bad boy when she fell for him. |
| Not really. |
| I have another answer. |
| Not sure. |
7. Oz left several episodes ago in Wild at Heart. Do Willow's post-Oz doldrums go on too long?
| Yeah. It gets annoying. |
| No. It takes some time to get over that. |
| I have another answer. |
| Not sure. |
8. Pretend you're a movie reviewer and give this episode a star rating:
| ***** (Five stars) |
| **** (Four stars) |
| *** (Three stars) |
| ** (Two stars) |
| * (One star) |
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Comments
I guess I was thinking that when she's blaming herself, because that's an established pattern, the pain is greater.
But I think you're right--I think Xander convinces her that it's her fault, that she's the one screwing up her relationships, so that's why her pain is intensified--because she can't externalize it. She has to turn it on herself. Grrr. Xander.
Which is really sad, because Buffy is actually showing some progress here, recognizing when the relationship is unhealthy and drawing lines she never could have with Angel.
Or, in summation: Grrr. Xander.